There's still a buzz going on on Facebook about Dan's concert last night. But please no one else tell me I must feel wonderful about what an impact he had. Of course, it is a testament to Dan more than anything- more than any amount of work people put into it or the artists who played- it speaks of him. But I don't feel wonderful. If he was 80 when he died and this tribute was played for him, I would still be a grieving widow, and it would still be hard. But he was 33. We had been married six years and have a daughter- nothing is wonderful about it.